What Truly Matters to Me?
Original exploration. Not a validated psychological measure.
When I have to choose, what do I protect first — connection, progress, stability, freedom, or fairness and care?
A short look at the values that quietly steer your choices — connection, progress, steadiness, freedom, and care. Free result. For reflection, not ranking your worth.
Twelve small tradeoffs, then some statements about the past four weeks. None of the tradeoffs has a morally "correct" answer. Pick the option that sounds most like you on an ordinary week — not the one you'd put on a résumé. If a scenario can't happen in your life, choose "Not applicable".
- 31 questions
- About 12 minutes
- 2 can be skipped
Who it's for
Adults who feel pulled in different directions and want plain language for what they keep prioritizing — at work, with family, in friendships, and in how they spend scarce time and energy.
What it can't tell you
- Which career, city, or partner you should choose
- Whether you are a good or bad person
- Your full personality or strengths inventory
- Whether you have any mental health condition
One question asks whether you've felt pulled in opposite directions lately. You can skip it.
Questions marked "optional" can be skipped. If you skip too many questions about one area, your result will say so instead of guessing.
No sign-up needed. Your answers are saved with an anonymous ID in this browser so you can see your result. You can delete them any time on the Privacy page.